Veteran NFL cornerback Stephon Gilmore, who is eyeing a return in the 2025 season, shared a revealing story about his early days with the New England Patriots. After spending his first five seasons with the Buffalo Bills, Gilmore questioned whether he had made the right move to New England.
In an appearance on The Money Down podcast, he recounted a moment that nearly broke him—being harshly criticized by head coach Bill Belichick during a team meeting. Gilmore admitted that the critique hit him so hard, he almost cried and had to step out of the room.
Belichick Holds Every Player Accountable, From Rookies to Future Hall of Famers
The incident occurred after Gilmore was caught in a bunch-route coverage and got picked, which Belichick harshly dissected during film review. Gilmore’s story highlights Belichick’s no-nonsense, equal-opportunity approach to criticism.
“He killed me the next meeting,” Gilmore recalled, emphasizing how intense the feedback was. But rather than demoralizing him in the long run, the experience had a lasting impact—Gilmore stated he never made the same mistake again.

Belichick’s reputation for holding all players accountable, regardless of stature, is well-known. He famously criticized even the likes of Tom Brady, Randy Moss, and Chad Johnson in front of the entire team.
This set a tone in the Patriots’ locker room: if the coach was willing to confront the best players on the team, no one else was safe from scrutiny. This culture fostered a high level of discipline and focus, which players like Brady accepted as necessary for team success.
Belichick’s Coaching Style Requires Early Wins to Earn Trust and Longevity
However, the Belichick method isn’t universally effective. Many of his former assistants have tried to replicate his strict, confrontational style in other organizations—often without success. These attempts frequently clashed with team cultures and created friction, especially when immediate wins didn’t follow. The approach demands a level of buy-in that is often hard to generate without Belichick’s track record and authority.
Ultimately, Belichick’s hardline methods are tolerated and respected because they’ve led to results. His early success in New England allowed him to establish and maintain control over the locker room.
Had he not delivered wins early on, his tenure might have been short-lived—similar to many of his former assistants who couldn’t recreate the same magic. For Gilmore, the tough love paid off, reinforcing the idea that under the right circumstances, Belichick’s unforgiving style can drive players to excellence.